For the person forgiving: It doesn’t hurt to forgive, only afraid that forgiveness will bring more hurt.
For the person who needs to be forgiven: Repeatedly forgiving an asshole who only end up hurting others more and more is call spoiling. Esp for some bastards dont even think they need forgiveness.
There a long way to go and perhaps some might never dawn to them to even seek, not to even say beg, forgiveness as long as they dont face the truth
Forgiveness definition of a scarred heart vs a big heart varies