Love is an action
Not just an emotion or a thought
it dawned to me that it applies in friendship as well
or rather anything that involves a form of relationship
With love ones
Started reminiscing about friendships in my life
Some are hurting me right now
Some had been cut off and i hope it didnt hurt the other
Some left me guarded with doubts
Some are new yet more precious
Some are weaning
Some are off with goodbyes soon
好在如同这影片的结尾，三代的父女们温柔跳着舞的片刻，虽然沉重和无奈的点还是在，但最后还是有着温暖的 ”同在一起” closing 让人安心。如同我昨晚一样，从一个很温暖朋友的 ”My Little Ling ah…” 问候开头和羅馬書 8:24 的”我們得救時就存著這盼望；但是看得見的盼望不是盼望，因為誰會盼望自己看見了的呢？” and with hope in christ for the unseen, 是最后让我的心和灵得找安慰和力量。
Should old acquaintance be forgot, and never brought to mind?
Should old acquaintance be forgot, and days of auld lang syne?
For Auld Lang Syne, my dear
for Auld Lang Syne
One a while, people say things like “I wish i can turn back time or go back to my childhood days to relieve those carefree days” while I shudder with the thought. If given anything, I would choose never to go back to those days. It was a nightmare that i would wish upon no one.
So no thank you, i am happier and at a better peace now than then
You’re altogether lovely
Altogether wonderful to me – Here i am to worship
Thank you. For stopping the temptations of heart matters. For your presence on paths and words paved when i am feeling fear and uneasy. For the peace tonight and showing me how i should and can trust and lean on you. To doors i wanted to shut for the wrong reasons but didnt because of you and to doors shuts because you know it what i need.
for the paths crossed and some perhaps not to be.
I love you lord.
“If you cant be the solution, let it be that you are not at least not part of the problem”
JUST last night, this advise kept ringing in my head and i almost wanted to blurt it out loud. I could still recall so clearly that this advise was given during the prefectorial camp when I was just a teenager and it was after a bunch of us kept shooting down some of the proposed ideas how to manage the rowdy student during recess with justification of how it had not worked previously.
We thought we were being practical and helpful, bringing the session alive and filtering useless ways that was tested before and although we all quietly nodded our heads but most of us felt indignant when told off and we secretly just felt that “aiyah these adults cant handle the hard truth, just wanna finish the session without disturbance“
As an adult now, i realized actually it’s was just us being si gin na because of the way we have “showed” our help. It’s the way we booed, showed our attitude, got frustrated and insisted our opinions out loud, causing distress to the teachers with our self righteousness.
Over the years, I see how harmful such self righteous can be and what a pain in the ass it can be to dealing with folks like that.
Righteousness should be like the fireplace that warms the heart but self-righteousness is like that unwanted forest fire burning away, giving haze and draining people health.
But to be honest, i still think that those proposed ideas were crap though
To live, to believe to feel again..
I am an incurable romantic
I believe in hope, dreams and decency
I believe in love,
Tenderness and kindness.
I believe in mankind.
I believe in goodness,
Mercy and charity
I believe in a universal spirit
believe in casting bread
Upon the waters.
I am awed by the snow-capped mountains
By the vastness of oceans.
I am moved by a couple
Of any age – holding hands
As they walk through city streets.
A living creature in pain
Makes me shudder with sorrow
A seagull’s cry fills me
With a sense of mystery.
A river or stream
Can move me to tears
A lake nestling in a valley
Can bring me peace.
– Leonard Nimoy
Do you know why kids are the easiest to love?
I think it’s because they are simple in how they think, feel and direct in expressing it. There is no hidden message, denial mode nor agenda on whatever they say.
You know what they want and what they dont and can give accordingly. It’s easy to interact because it’s so clear.
Recently i feel really drained. Of dealing with people who are tainted and is damnest hard to communicate and deal esp with in time when there is an issue.
It’s the most irony of how they complicate their life and issues with emotions and insist in claiming to be nonchalant. They will make a point and insist on it which makes it so painfully obvious
There is no need to pretend to be cool a out it when you are not cool about it.
Gotta pray for patience and grace for me to lean on and let them be. Trying my best to be understanding and tactful and cant help but to wish more people can be REALLY simple instead of just claiming.
Be honest and transparent. Be sensitive but not petty. Be nice not PR. Be real not fake. Be truthful on how you feel vs what claim. Isnt it so much better and easier?
Oh well, to each its own.. Everyone have their demon to slay. I’m getting more frustrated with how affected i am, just wish i can stop getting affected by all these murky toxic of others
heeh! just realize the sticker meant that woman always see themselves fatter