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Victorian era I wish


I have to admit, twilight was a really shitty book to read or i would even say ridiculous movie to watch but there are reasons why girls are attracted to it or me that are able to be blinded by it.

No, those girls were not attracted to a blood sucker man that sparkles in the day but instead by this almost perfect gentleman from the Victorian era (read below).

Though I had wished on an umpteen times that twilight was written by a much better author.

Edward explains to Bella his views about sex, marriage, romance, and courtship. Edward tells Bella:

“I come from a different era. Things were a lot less complicated. And if I would have met you back then, I would have courted you. We’d have taken chaperoned strolls, and iced tea on the porch. I may have stolen a kiss or two. Only after asking your fathers permission, I would have gotten down on one knee, and I would have presented you with a ring.”

Songwriters: HODGES, DAVID / PERRI, CHRISTINA

Heartbeats fast
Colors and promises
How to be brave
How can I love when I’m afraid to fall
But watching you stand alone
All of my doubt suddenly goes away somehow
One step closer

I have died everyday waiting for you
Darling don’t be afraid I have loved you
For a thousand years
I love you for a thousand more

Time stands still
Beauty in all she is
I will be brave
I will not let anything take away
What’s standing in front of me
Every breath
Every hour has come to this
One step closer

I have died everyday waiting for you
Darling don’t be afraid I have loved you
For a thousand years
I love you for a thousand more

And all along I believed I would find you

Time has brought your heart to me
I have loved you for a thousand years
I love you for a thousand more

One step closer
One step closer

I have died everyday waiting for you
Darling don’t be afraid I have loved you
For a thousand years
I love you for a thousand more

And all along I believed I would find you
Time has brought your heart to me
I have loved you for a thousand years
I love you for a thousand more

Every girl wants a fairy tale even though many don’t believe in it, every girl wants to be treated like a proper lady, to fall in love with a prince whom are gentleman.

However how many are being a lady in the first place? Maybe i am too traditional for my era, i cant help but to cringe and minus points for girls who sleep over at their guys place when they are dating.

It’s not about sleeping together or not, for they might be just spending a night and not sleeping together but the image of such behavior reeks the value of cheapness and too much of it equals to being too 随便…. well never mind.

it had been an issue and i foresee will continue to be as i see this behavior deteriorating in this household recently. I just wish that even if one don’t think they are at wrong or think that it’s perfectly fine perhaps because they think they have good self control  – to simply to remember that it is actually not okay or right once you decide to not respect others, your parents, your mother about it and worse, to lie about it and do it behind one’s back.

you might not mind or find it a big deal but that doesn’t mean it isn’t. Self respect or you find none giving you any respect.